Sunday, April 3, 2022

Mary of Bethany, hidden figures, and our desperate need for perspective

Scripture: John 12:1-8

            One of the great benefits of camping ministry is that it takes us outside of our normal. There are countless benefits to getting out of our routines every once in awhile, not least that we might see something that we were blind to back home. This is what we might call perspective, and perspective can only be gained by stepping back and looking at things from a different angle. Our world needs more perspective these days. The more perspective we have, the more deeply God is revealed, and the more we may understand who God is.

            Take today’s Gospel reading, for example. There is something really obvious about Jesus’ ministry that we all should have probably noticed the first time we ever heard the Gospels, but if you are like me, you have been trained by a lifetime of biases to ignore it—trained by a world that values certain voices over others and taught to look elsewhere. If you look at this passage from one perspective, you can reduce the episode of Jesus, Mary and Martha to a moral: Be a Mary, not a Martha. And we move on.


          But it struck me as I was reading John 12 this week, especially as I continued past the end of the appointed reading, that the whole of this chapter and indeed the lion’s share of the Gospel of John consists of stories of temple priests, political leaders, and, yes, even disciples of Jesus, who rarely if ever understand a thing about Jesus. For example, the very next verses in John 12 talk of a plot amongst the priests to kill Lazarus because Jesus is getting too much support on his account, since—you know—Jesus raised him from the dead. Then, Jesus follows that up by explaining peoples’ unbelief before we head off to chapter 13 and the washing of the disciples’ feet, which predictably leads to some minor outrage on Peter’s part, because even the best of the disciples fail to grasp who Jesus really is.

            But you know who has a wide enough perspective? Mary of Bethany, who anoints Jesus’ feet in this story…. Mary, Jesus’s mother with her Magnificat…  the woman at the well…. the women who appear at the tomb on Easter morning… notice a trend? Even though the vast majority of characters who appear in the Gospels are men, they are too locked into viewing the world as they expect it to be. Meanwhile, the women get it straight-away Now, in the interest of fairness, there are a few men who get it, too: Lazarus, raised from the dead; a crippled man who walks; a blind man who receives his sight. Another trend is emerging. The people who see Jesus for who he is are the ones who are hurt and powerless: Women, who had no power in ancient Israel; the sick and the dead, too; the unclean; the rejected. As Robert Farrar Capon put it: Jesus Christ came for the least, the last, the lost, the lowly, the little, and the dead. If you aren’t one of those, you aren’t going to get it.

            It’s easy to think two thousand years later that we get it now. We have the requisite perspective to understand. But I don’t see a lot of indication that this is true. We filter Jesus through our own wants and desires just as easily today as the chief priests did in the Holy Land two millennia ago. We still make God in our image. You know this is happening when our Jesus loves all the people we love and hates all the people we hate—when our Jesus judges all the folks we like to judge and excuses those indiscretions we look past.

Mary shows us a better way. When she takes the perfume and anoints Jesus’ feet, it upsets the apple cart. In Matthew’s Gospel, all the disciples are there to rebuke her. In John, it is just Judas, but the reaction is much the same. How dare she waste valuable perfume for this strange purpose—anointing Jesus’ feet of all things! Frankly, it’s weird. The perfume should have been saved for the throne; it should have been used on his head; or, as Judas points out, it could well have been sold and given to the poor. That would have been charitable. But this perspective fails to understand anything about who Jesus actually is. Jesus is not coming for the throne of the king; he is coming for the throne of the cross. And the throne of the cross is a throne of death. Whether Mary grasps that or not, her act of anointing Jesus’ feet marks him as lord over death. This is not a cutesy story about being a Mary, not a Martha. This is the very moment where Jesus becomes Christ—the “anointed.”

            I suspect part of the reason Mary is willing to anoint Jesus’ feet is because she lives in a world where her status is already so maligned that she has no reason to care if people scoff. Why should it bother her if Judas maligns her? This grants Mary the freedom to express herself before Jesus as she wishes. The same is true of the lame and the blind. In a society where they are reduced to being nothing but beggars what have they to lose?

 

            When I was a pastor, we would take our youth on a yearly service trip somewhere around the country. We would travel sometimes many states away to do the kind of service that existed much closer to home, and our church members would occasionally raise concerns about this—justifiably—because there is much service that can and should be done at home. Why should we take our kids to Idaho, or Colorado, or Michigan when we had plenty of service opportunities nearby? Well, there is a good reason after all, but you almost have to go on one of these trips to understand. The kids would hop off the bus different people than when they got on, because they had been plunked from their comfort zone—which is scary!— but out there, they inevitably discovered a strange, unexpected freedom when they were no longer expected to be the person they were back home. When they got away from their normal, they no longer felt the pressure to justify their every action. Instead, they lived into the freedom that flows from Christ, which inevitably led them to serve generously. Perspective made them joyful.

            Like Mary, we are free to give lavishly, but it tends to take everything being stripped away before we do it, because only then will we stop hedging our bets and understand that Jesus it not just a nice idea but the very ground of truth on which we stand. And when Truth stands in front of you, what else can you do but offer up everything you have in gratitude?

            Camp, too, breaks us free from our normalcy. Outside of your comfort zone, you may well discover that God has been there all along just waiting for you to notice. This happens at camp not because we have some magical formula for preaching or teaching, and not because our camp counselors are such great theologians—they aren’t. Rather, camp reveals God to campers when the dominant voices reverberating around their heads from life back home are stripped away and they are free to experience God not how they are supposed to but how God actually meets them.

            Kids come to Ewalu from home lives that are varied. In that home life, they are taught who is trustworthy and who is not; what is good and what is bad; and how to act and how not to act. And, generally, parents do a good job, but we can never get past our inherent biases to make our kids into our own image. Our hopes and fears slant our kids’ perspective, and they either fall in line or they run in the opposite direction. I hate to say it—because I have a camper myself—but camp frees kids from their parents, and their pastors, and their churches (if they have one), and whatever news network is on in the car on the ride home from practice, and whatever their friends tell them is cool or uncool. Camp strips it all away.

            But this much can be achieved by going on vacation. More than offering a simple getaway, camp centers what is essential. At camp, you hear that the love of God is for you—that Christ came for you—that you are enough through Christ who redeems you. Each year’s theme is different, but the center holds. This summer’s theme is Boundless: God’s love beyond measure; and it is about the height and depth of God’s love for us. Then, loved by God, we are set free in Christ to respond by sharing that love lavishly with a world that needs it. We can be Mary unconcerned with the cost of what we are sharing—just doing what is right when everyone else is looking at us like we are crazy.

            So, maybe this scripture is about being a Mary after all, but only if we are very clear about what Mary is doing. Mary is not following the masses; Mary gives lavishly of what she has; Mary humbles herself to what is true, not what is popular; and perhaps most importantly, Mary has no agenda but the humility of walking after Christ on the road to the cross. When Christ is throwing the only party in town, who cares what the stick-in-the-mud neighbors think?


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