Confirmation
is a seminal event in the life of the church. It’s the day that brings to
fruition the promises that were made in your baptism, and it is your
opportunity to publicly respond to that baptismal promise that your parents and
godparents made for you. But first I want to be clear about a couple things,
the first of which I say every year and will continue to say every year until
I’m satisfied we are a church that doesn’t act like this: confirmation is not graduation. We parade you up here in
gowns and applaud for you so it feels like graduation, but it is my profound
hope that you are not done with the church even as you are just becoming
members. If so, we have failed you.
Confirmation also does not mean that you agree with every
detail of what our church confesses. If we honestly felt that way none of you
would be getting confirmed. You are all little heretics who think for
yourselves, but it’s not a sin to have independent thoughts. To be a member of
the church is not to become an automaton who goes through the motions of
worship once a week. While we ask that you respect the traditions that have
been handed down for tens, or hundreds, or, in some cases, thousands of years,
you are free also to respectfully disagree with those traditions. People have disagreed about things as long
as there has been a church, and they can do this and faithfully remain a part
of the church because we do not worship traditions or theological viewpoints. We
worship Jesus. All of our traditions and confessions and doctrines are
cornerstones for temple-building, but the temple is not the thing that we
worship.